Tag: psychology

  • Experience That Violates Expectation

    Experience That Violates Expectation

    I was considering a client I am working with, and while considering something about them I wrote perhaps the most important line in my work as a therapist yet.  The absolute best way to break conscious/unconscious sets, ingrained beliefs, life rules, organizing/governing principles—is to contradict them and to experience something different than what’s expected.  This…